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Coming of Age Around the Country

Coming of Age Around the Country is our blog about what people 50+ are doing, dreaming, and making happen in their communities.


Unintended Consequences

Posted By Dick Goldberg on Mar 20, 2010

LAS CRUCES, NM.  I had thought that age 50+ civic engagement had two primary benefits: helping nonprofit organizations accomplish their missions and strengthening the sense of purpose for those 50+ who contributed their time and talent.

In Las Cruces, I learned about a third major pay-off.

I was there talking with representatives of two communities-- Las Cruces and nearby Alamogordo, people who ran senior centers and RSVPs and who were involved in the cultural lives of the two towns.

We were mapping out plans to present the Coming of Age Capturing the Energy and Expertise of People 50+” Learning Lab and some other of the initiative’s programs, when the idea of how these activities could bring people together came up.

The energy in the room kicked up a notch.

We’re Going to Mix It Up

People had all sorts of ideas about how these programs would get together folks who don’t always interact so much with each other.

Citizens of the two communities themselves for sure.  But also the Mexican and Anglo communities. And having people representing the arts mix it up with those involved with education and senior services and other kinds of community work.

The Law of Unintended Consequences is usually thought of in a bad way: "An intervention in a complex system that may or may not have the intended result, but will inevitably create unanticipated and often undesirable outcomes" is how Wikipedia puts it.

That wasn’t the way folks in New Mexico thought things would play out. 

They were thinking not only would they end up with more compelling roles for people 50+ to play in local organizations, not only would they be building the capacity of those organizations and thereby creating a stronger Las Cruces and Alamogordo, but also that they would be helping knit the community together, tighter, closer, and richer in the most human sense of that term.

Unintended Consequences of the Good Kind

As I see our programs become part of more and more communities, it’s amazing to me how many of them have “unintended consequences of the good kind.”

How at our Boomervision! lectures, during the dialogue with the presenters, those under 50+ will say, “But I’m interested in legacy (or meaningful work or telling my story or whatever the topic is) too!”

How at our training sessions, executive directors and program managers say “We can apply these ideas to creating roles and cultivating all our volunteers—not just older ones.”

Is the work we’re doing to tap the resource that people 50+ represent, our anti-ageism and promotion of positive aging having some other “unintended consequence?”

Like helping connect people who otherwise are “siloed?” And empower people of all ages?

It sure looks like it to me.

 

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Dead Wrong

Posted By Dick Goldberg on Feb 25, 2010

Phoenix, AZ. Recently, on a trip to conduct our Explore Your Future Train the Trainer program in San Francisco and then meet with community leaders in Las Cruces, NM to discuss presenting our “Capturing the Energy and Expertise of People 50+” Learning Lab, I changed planes in Phoenix.

Just enough time to grab a quick lunch. Continue Reading Dead Wrong

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Kena Hora!

Posted By Dick Goldberg on Jan 14, 2010

Palo Alto, CA. "Make the discussion of end of life normative."

I heard this admonition at the Purpose Prize Summit over two months ago, and it has returned to my consciousness several times since.

Its speaker was Ellen Goodman, the Boston Globe columnist, who explored the idea in the Summit's keynote address.
 

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Kindred Spirits

Posted By Dick Goldberg on Dec 16, 2009

St. Petersburg, FL. "What do you mean when you say community?"

That was the question that SHIFT's Jan Hively, The Transition Network's Betsy Werley and I asked at a workshop we conducted at the Positive Aging Conference at Eckerd College earlier this month.
 

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Full Circle

Posted By Dick Goldberg on Nov 4, 2009

Kansas City, MO. I like it when things come full circle. When the last becomes the first. When Alpha meets Omega.

When someone says, "Wow, we started out with one idea, pursued all manner of twists and turns and now we're back to the idea we started with. Only richer."

That was the feeling I had a week ago when Coming of Age: Kansas City launched.

And launch they did, at an incredible party at one of that city's architectural and cultural jewels: The National World War I Museum.

JoEllen Wurth, Executive Director of Shepherd's Center of KC Central, and the force of nature who had championed bringing Coming of Age to Kansas City, read from the Shepherd's Center Central mission statement, written almost 40 years ago:

"Shepherd's Center with its partner organizations, enables mid-life and older adults to share their talents, skills and wisdom, for the good of their peers and the community."

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The Power of Hispanic Elders

Posted By Corita Brown on Oct 9, 2009

Corita Brown is the Assistant Director of Communities for All Ages, a program of Temple University's Intergenerational Center that helps create sustainable communities through multi-generational collaboration.

I had the real honor and pleasure this week of attending the National Hispanic Council on Aging (NHCOA) conference in Washington DC with Coming of Age trainers Manuel Portillo, Santiago Burgos and Yvonne Thompson-Friend who were leading workshops on advocacy and civic engagement.

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Talk Amongst Yourselves? No!

Posted By Dick Goldberg on Sep 22, 2009

Oakland, CA. Earlier this month. I piloted a new Coming of Age program, "Conversations on the Journey," at the American Society on Aging Fall Regional Conference here.

Oakland, as you may know, is the birthplace of the writer Gertrude Stein, who famously quipped about the place, "There is no there there."

Note to Gert: there is.

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To Life!

Posted By Dick Goldberg on Aug 23, 2009

Denver.  What I’m about to share happened just outside this Colorado city, but the story actually starts almost 20 years ago… in Mexico!

My wife and I were on vacation. Which is where we discovered the joy of being. 
 

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Running into Michelle

Posted By Dick Goldberg on Jul 13, 2009

SAN FRANCISCO. Yes, that Michelle. Mrs. Obama. I knew something was up when I tried to get into one my favorite bistros in the City by the Bay, Fino, and was met at the entrance by a burly man in an ill-fitting suit.

"I'll have to wand you," he said.

"You'll have to what?" I replied, and then saw the tell-tale earpiece and Secret Service insignia on his lapel.

Always a questioner of authority, I demanded, "Why?"

I Sight the First Lady
 

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